Aaaaaaah, Jenna. I’m not going to lie, in the last few years, Jenna has become one of my dearest friends. She’s one of the greatest girls in the world — she’s funny, humble, sweet, loyal, and fantastic. And she’s got an insane wardrobe, where we sometimes spend hours together.

On top of all of that, she’s great when it comes to helping her poor little lost French friend get by in New York society. Jenna is the queen of modern elegance, and I can’t even count the number of desperate texts I’ve sent her (“How should I respond to this email? Should I send flowers? When?”) So I thought she would be absolutely perfect for answering my questions about elegance in Love Style Life. Here are her responses, in the video.